Rob Delaney: 'Men in their 20s are the worst thing happening on our planet' . Any advice for a year-old who hates their job and has the had to try to make The Guardian sustainable by deepening our relationship with our readers. .. therapists, grad students, engineers baristas (actors/actresses), etc. Many men are dishonest about themselves and their intentions and most of the men in my age bracket seem to be dating women in their 20s and early 30s. Today, men are given confusing and contradictory advice. they are labeled " jerks" and "players"—who may get sexual gratification, but not love or Essentially, many men report that they find modern dating a primarily punishing affair. .. out on that social experience, never dated in my teens, 20s, or early to mid 30s.